Need advice on WAW with OM

[svejk]

Another part of this is that I'm also pretty sure this OM is not someone she sees herself with long term. That's why I think she is still telling me she just needs space to figure things out, but she enjoys the attention of having a fling with a new guy. I don't know if I can handle this and am having a hard time fighting the urge to call her and tell her to either end it or lose me permanently.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Hopefully someone can calm me down so I don't make a mistake and call her right now.

Thanks,
Svejk