I've been reviewing some of our recent conversations and I've noticed that one thing has popped up a number of times now. W has talked about me and other women. First to get things straight, there hasn't been any. She has brought it up several times now in differnet ways. One time she made a comment about how she was sure that women had been giving me their numbers. Another time during a conversation she brought it up and explained how she understood and wouldn't freak out and create some sort of scene if she saw me out with someone. She has also commented about "who is she to tell me that I couldn't go out with someone if I wanted to". And most recently, during our date this weekend it came up again.

The first couple of times it came up was early on and I wasn't really sure where things with us stood (not that I really do now either), so i just played it off some but allowed some mystery and diverted the conversation with out really answering the question. The last time when it came up was a fairly intimate moment (not that kind of intimate ) and it seemed out of place and vulnerable. I just looked at her and told her to stop worrying so much about that.
I don't know if this a way to try and find something I've done to be able to point the finger and ease her guilt or something else.

I'm not sure where this is coming from or if it is something to try to understand better. Does anybody have some experience with this,


M 39, W 35
D7, S5
Friends 18+ Together 11+
Married 8
ILYBINILWY 4/7/07 - A BOMB 4/29/07
Seperated 5/16/07 - D Filed
She Moved out 7/1
D Busted 6/15/08