Your change will be met with skepticism and cynicism for a while.
It makes me remember something about how the brain learns and changes. I may be off a little with some of the numbers, but the general idea is right. Let's say it takes the brain 12 times to repeat new learning and get it ingrained. If you do that with bad learning (habits, routines, etc.), it doesn't just takes another 12 to learn the positive habit or routine. It takes twice as many. You have to unlearn the bad habit or routine before you can learn what you're supposed to. If it takes such discipline for you to intentionally change, imagine what it's like for your W to be going along for the ride.
You're showing her what it takes to get through the pain.
Me 40 W 38 S 4 M 7.75 ILYBNILWY 6/8/07 "do not want to be your W" 6/16/07 DB'ing 6/30/07
1st M 6 yrs; she was my first WAW
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