I hope so, OT. The emotional roller coaster s*cks.
I actually typed up a synopsis (helped to get it in my head without getting overly emotional). I would post it, but it is about 9 pages long...wish there was a file-sharing place to post here...
You know, I read all this stuff with the hopes that we may still end up back together, you know...
Do you think that someone can change their core values permanently like that? I know that I love the man he once was. It seems like overnight, but after reading that book, I realize that he was silently transforming for probably 2 years or longer...Not that I would want to stop him on this journey; just wish he could have seen that we could have done this together, instead of keeping it secret and going outside of the marriage to meet needs.