What's the difference between the sex you get and the making love you want?
Martelo, I am going to hazard a guess to see if I do understand Cemar. I think the difference is that sex is his wife merely doing it for him and not because she wants to do it and especially not because she desires him. Making Love would be her initiating or at least wanting him to initiate. it would also include everything on his previous list that creates intimacy.
Which then I guess this is the question, does Cemar believe his wife loves him??? Does he love her??
But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus