It felt pretty darn good to be in that place (not sure if I am still there after last night). I was feeling rather calm, confident and content. And, somewhat strangely, I was somewhat more confident that my M may work out now. I felt like my chances of success were closer to 50-50, for some reason. It's like I think I am doing a good job of DBing, and giving myself the best shot, and now it's just whether or not I get a little luck and W puts OM/EA out of her mind/life/heart, etc. Guess we'll see
Morning Nomo.
The reason for the confident feelings are likely a direct result of you putting the skills you have learned to work, the same ones that will keep your PMA intact, & the same ones that won't let "Luck" be the determining factor.
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It felt pretty darn good to be in that place (not sure if I am still there after last night).
It seems that a focus on the OM/OW will trip up the LBS everytime, doesn't it. That focus somehow permeates all else, even if you're going in a positive direction & can sabotage/weaken your DB efforts.
The more you GAL & fill your time with other people & new experiences, the less time to dwell on something that will not help & in fact takes on a life of it's own.
We know this o/c, just have to keep reminding ea other & our selves. Just as when after you lose weight doesn't mean you can do it once & then back to eating & bad habits.
Getting back to picturing success increases your confidence level & makes ya look very attractive, & not just to W
Looking forward to your journal entry hopefully posted tonight, I've been going through a little withdrawal
