I'm trying to be positive and each day I want to remember those things from yesterday that look to be going in the right direction. I want to concentrate on the positive and let go of the negative.

It has taken me awhile to really understand that I have been going down cheeseless tunnels. I am changing that beginning yesterday. I'm going to STOP nagging, be more kind and loving. I change and he will change.

Positives for yesterday:

1. He wants to go with me on our annual family golf vacation in September
2. He doesn't want me to take my (male) friend with me if my H is not able to take the time off of work. This person is just a friend and nothing else.
3. H wants me to see if my BIL could go instead of my friend. I had told my H that we need a fourth and that was why I had ask my friend if he was interested in going.

Faith

Last edited by Have Faith; 08/07/07 05:18 PM.

H 48
W 57
M 15 yrs
T 18 yrs
No children
EA 1/12/06
Moved out 3/10/07 & 8/16/07
Back on 5/18/07
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