What kind of tattoo are you getting? We will need a description... Hi Mat, Just checking in and thanking for checking on me. Your D is going thru a tough time. When my H first took a job a way in 2002 he had done all the sports with the boys coached football and basketball and helped them. My youngest S was a junior. When his dad left he went thru some tough little rebellious stages. He tried me and didn't want to talk to his dad. He would be late for his curfew and just push it but I finally go I think in your situation you have rules and your H doesn't even though deep down kids like rules they still try you on them. I have to go to work but stay consistent with her and are always there for her and she will realize it. Thats what happened with me. I was always there for him.. It is hard for a while.
Well I have to go to work. Thinking of you..Hang in there.....
It's grapevine wrap with country stars off little trailers with the colors of my granchildrens birth stones. I have twin grandbaby boys born in Jan. that are three and a half and a 8 year old step granson born in Oct.
I'll have to post pics along with Tal and Husband.
JAK
You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez
I had planned to get the papers to the lawyer today....but work was too busy. No one there knows so it is a bit more difficult to just leave the office. Maybe I can manage it during a lunch break or just go in late one day. I need to get my car in the shop soon so maybe I can combine that with a trip to the lawyer. Maybe I am just procrastinating?!?!
Mattie, You do it only when you are ready. This is one decision you have a say in. Maybe we didn't have a say in what the WAS did, but you do have control over your actions. Take your time and do what is best for you and DD.
Hugs, Yoyo
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Zak, It sounds like a neat tat. Your grand kids sound cute....At least you can think about them. Mat, Don't do anything til you are ready. If he is in a big hurry he can. Make sure that it is the best for you and you DD. I know my H won't file first because he doesn't want to be the bad guy and he doesn't have to commit to her if I am still in the picture. Makes sense doesn't it. But I have decide to get all things together and be one step a head. I think you need a lawyer because dealing with someone who isn't the person you once knew you don't know their reaction.
I am here for you and thanks for the hugs greatly appreciated and Hugs for you . You deserve them.....
