You've pointed this out to lots of others, and you know it yourself, but put the OM out of your mind. That's something you can't control and it's about the only thing that seems to drag down your PMA.
Luck's not going to bring your M back together, your hard work is. Keep focusing on you, like you're doing, and don't worry about this leach who doesn't have enough confident to find a woman of his own.
As you say, onward and upward (and don't look back)
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY