Hi Atlas, Your doing great man. Keep doing what your doing. I think you just need to keep telling her that she needs to do what she needs to do. Do whatever you need to do to be happy. Afterall, thats what shes going to do anyway. Let her go file if she needs to. Some time just filing is such a relief to them that thats all they end up doing. It gives them back control if they feel they have been controled by their marriage. Keep it up man your doing everything u can do.
My w filed last week. She was so nice after. She let her guard down a little. For some reason they feel trapped by the marriage. Sometimes they cant start the healing process while they feel they are still married. Sometimes by filing they feel free. But, dont ever let her rush your decision. I told her over the weekend that I still need time to figure out what I need. I told her that I need a true seperation for at least 6 mons. before I can make my decision. So just because she files doesnt mean its the end.
