Just checking in on your sitch. Trying to catch up.
The plans you outlined in your journal sound good. I hope you can implement them with the least amount of resistance.
It looks like your R with your kids is getting stronger. Keep up with the GAL plans and keep working on yourself and your R with the kids.
Good luck.
ps
The family and I are at Huntington Beach almost every Sunday (4pm til 9pm) for the fire pits. Hot dogs and smores, mmmmmm..... At least for a few hours it takes your mind off of the sitch. You're welcome to join if you've got the time.
Me: 40 W: 39 D12 D9 D6 ILYBNILWY: 06/15/07 "We can work things out": 06/21/07 Currently: Still together, DB'ing every day