I'm not sure dlt1, but I think EAs still involve romantic feelings, so it goes beyond just good friends. I think good friends can morph into EAs. I think the key is whether the emotional connection between the two involves feelings of intimacy - like the other person is their soul mate. Even if it hasn't gone physical, it probably involves feelings on at least one side that the person would like to be physical. In my case, my W and OM exchanged emails where they told each other "ILY." So I know it had grown beyond just being good friends.

Search the internet for articles on affairs and emotional affairs and you will find lots of resources that can help explain it. I read them about six months ago, so I can't really explain it very well right now.

Last edited by Nomopo; 08/07/07 04:11 PM.
M 39
W 39
M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs
S7 D4
Bomb 5-8-05
W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22
DB 4-10
S 6-11
No more C
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