Thanks for all the input, comments, and suggestions. I was somewhat worried about the whole domain name and idea of anything to do with the word "divorce" but then I thought about it and the whole point is to avoid that! So that is what I am doing - looking for help before it ever gets to that point.
haphazard - Awesome stuff. I am likely going to send her a link to join today.
DIY - I think she takes it more seriously after a few recent talks. I am going to bring the whole thing up again at our next appointment though and get any new or different input from our doctor. I guess the only reason I have considered my drive "high" is that hers is lower. Maybe mine is normal and hers is not. Maybe hers is there and she just doesn't know it. We shall find out though! Just reading what people responded with here gave my confidence a little increase. I am not ready to just be as I once was but at least I am not considering the eunuch route today.
Kettricken - I mostly agree with you that it is a "shield". I was going to post something to you about "don't call my wife stupid!" but you did generalize that a little bit in your edit.
Originally Posted By: shmagic
Reading about how both men and women feel and behave is a real eye opener.
Don't ignore this problem because you love your wife or 20 years from now you could easily be one of the divorce statistics.
I am going to send her an email and ask her about joining today.
