Kelley...I didn't say I got through the single parenting with "no problem"...but I did get through it...and my kids and I developed a very special R in the process...something I didn't have before even though I was mostly a SAHM and involved with my kids...it is just different when it is just you and the kids against the world...it is a different bond...
It is hard...you are "IT" all the time...I had to ask for down time from kids...take a break just for me...because 24/7 mom is just wayyy too much...but 20/6 mom is pretty dealable...
I am just clarifying for you incase you misunderstood...the point is YOU can do this...and if you NEED to you WILL
789...thanks...I know I sound like a broken record sometimes but I try and get to the newcomers and the ones struggling to give encouragement...to give them reason to keep on keeping on...I didn't much support in the beginning myself and it was hard...I came back and then decided to start reading more...posting less...I waited until I really had something of importance to say...and winning this war is important...I think there are more success stories then we know but people forget what got them there...I won't forget...I want others to finish the journey...and hopefully with their S returning and a NEW MARRIAGE!
