Well BM07 the big thing here is we both know that we need to improve on our communication skills. Honestly that's my goal if we attend, that we greatly improve our communication skills. Sure it would be awesome if it brought us back together but that's not my goal from it, a hope and dream yes but not a goal. She feels we need to improve communication as well to help us through all of this. That's been one of her top two goals for a long time.
Now at this time she's warming up to these ideas, her fear wall is slowly being de-constructed. Not demolished but taken down piece by piece. Which means it can go up too and I have to be aware of that fact. Truthfully I have to do some de-constructing of my own, de-constructing my hard core stand. I have to be willing to risk it all here. Basically let it go and if it's meant to be it'll return.
Last edited by catfan; 08/07/0702:53 PM.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
