This is my opinion on the matter & it would be good to hear if you think i'm being unreasonable...
Ok, I can offer her 1/3 of her share of the equity on this house now in cash, that would pay most if not all her debts. I would like to make her the offer of 2/3 the equity if I should ever choose to sell or should I remarry ect..Of course I/we would have this set in legal terms with the help of a lawer.
Plan sounds good, but why would you offer her 2/3 later? Why not just offer her the rest of her 1/2 (less the 1/3 you paid in cash already)?
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