That's great to hear cat. At least your w is considering it. I tried asking my w to go before I sign the D papers to make sure I am totally sure this is what we want. Needless to say, she didnt bite and got mad at me and told me I'm still being controlling. How is not wanting to let her go and destroying my M and fam controlling?
Good luck man. Keep doin what your doin seems to be workin.
