I think people need to stop telling you what you like or don't like, need or don't need.

Cobra, I don't think any of us have ever told Cemar to not WANT, LIKE or NEED sex. We have only tried to open his eyes to looking at what might actually GET him sex. He just does not like the fact that it might take him having to take on responsibility and work for getting sex. He would rather point the finger at his wife and call her names for not giving it to him NOW.

Otherwise great post. And you are spot on about the frustration many of us feel \:\)



But what is happiness except the simple harmony between a man and the life he leads? ~Albert Camus