Second. You have the will. The body may not be operating on NJ time, but... that really is a moot point. You have to embrace the fact that things will be a bit different for you for a time... and that is not a bad thing.
I'd be willing to bet the farm your H's drive is coming up as yours is going down. He actually has to work for something; chase something. Men love that... as long as you don't put them through the gauntlet.
Use this. Learn what it is like to have a man turn you on. You've always been 'ready.' Now, at least, you are mentally willing. Use the time to become more vulnerable with one another. Learn the benefits of intimate touch and feel without an O; read Peace Between the Sheets.
