Hi H,

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I sympathized, but didn't really validate -- same thing, maybe?


Yes, I think it serves the main purpose. You didn't argue, which is what most people who don't have access to DB skills do.

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This is kind of a 180. I've been somewhat walking on eggshells around her and her feelings (and taking a lot of her darts over the past few years without too much response on my part) and I needed to show her a little of the old fire/self confidence.


Also good, they say the rules are guidelines to be used for your paticular sitch & you adapted it to yours.

Looks like you really did very well.

I would let her sit with it before bringing up anything else. That castle thing, ya know


Sunny

Last edited by warm&sunny; 08/07/07 02:01 AM.

M-7 yrs
together-8 yrs
S-4yr
S-15yr

Bomb-4/25/07
Sep-same day
me-49
H-49

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