2. I'm thinking joint custody, visitation for her. I've only said "Mom has done some things that she shouldn't have done". Counselor helped me with the wording.
3. I'm divorcing my wife: I'm fed up with how I've been treated, for sure. A is a minor issue. It's "Owning her sh**t" that is the real problem.
Still secretive. Said ILYBNILWY again. Why can't we just be friends? I got the feeling in May '07 that she might be in another A Very little to no empathy after A and long drawn out denial. Refusal to go and or participate in MC or IC, etc.
4. Both. Ultimate goal would be to save marriage. Second goal to move on.
5. I own my part and am truly sorry for the damage I've caused.
6. The ranting makes me nervous. I've only ranted online. Or with counselor. I'm not very comfortable doing that. It's a release of sorts. My counselor has read my posts and wants me to ease up and focus thoughts elsewhere too.
7. November.
8. The detaching. Yes. I'm very interested on those thoughts. Roller-coaster is really easing with NC but I still feel it enough.
9. That part has been the OK part. It's the loss of my wife and it's effect that still needs work. God is good to me. I'm very blessed everywhere in my life but for my marriage.
