Quoting KAW: Waahoo!! Maybe we can get everyone here to do the wave for LL ... LOL
Actually, it just occured to me...I don't think your H has yet realized it is a consistant effort in order to make each day a better day. I truely believe he wants to LL, but probably is expecting that this stuff should just fall into place and doesn't realize that in order to make each day a better day, he has to put in an equal amount of effort if not more than he did the day before. He doesn't know that what he did today will not continue to carry the same momentum into tomorrow, but thinks it should. So he doesn't realize that he has to do it all over again, day after day.
Anyway, so glad to hear you received a warm Valentine from your husband.
'til later, KAW
so then how to if I even care to at this point...get him to understand the momentum needs to continue??? I cant persue for fear of rejection...I am at a loss...
sitting here....confident that I will call a lawyer tommorow and start the d myself...then I go back and read this thread and see the good days...and wonder...is there still hope?? can I do something to bring the good days closer together...can this m be saved.
will h come home tonight (he wasn't going to but s called him when going to bed and asked if he'd be here when the sun came up so I assume he'll crawl in round 3...will he sleep on the couch...will he crawl into bed...) I don't know anymore...I don't know from day to day what h will come through the door...the happy one who gives me a warm kiss on the cheek or the one who gives me the obligatory peck? I know what things h does and doesn't do that effect my moods... I don't know what things I do or don't do that effect h's moods. and h wont give me an answer....maybe he doesn't know... maybe he's just a "guy"
we'll see what tommorow brings..but I still plan to talk to a lawyer just to get the informantion.
