J - Wanted to further reply to your situation separately from my long-winded post above. I knew there had to be an OW or an MLC. Sounds like the latter. (my W has an OM and an MLC at the same time). Maybe it is a risk for you re divorce, but after 25 months, I think you are right to take a chance. My only reservation is that it sounds like your H needs a lot of attitude adjustment through MC or whatever before you move back together. You know best though.
L.
M 63 W 40 M 4/91 S14/D9 bomb 7/6/07 D filed 8/3/07 final 2/4/08 thread
