Quote: But can you walk away and leave the door open a tad bit?
the only way h would have any chance at me opening up to him is if he were to open up to me...which he wont do..h will need to do a lot of work on himself get to know himself..and actually be willing to work on the r.
h doesn't want to do any of that and wont...so really there is no point of leaving the door open...I left it open over the summer and someone disguised as a changed man came in only to later reveal the same old h that had left.
facts of the matter are that in all honesty I should have been the one to have an affair..leave and ask for a d...I just didn't do it...I know I can live without him...and know that the kids will be well provided for...there really is no reason for me to suffer in this r anymore...after all there really isn't a r here anyway...simply to people going through the motions.
I'd rather get a d than have an affair myself and that is what will happen if I stay in this m.
