Have you tried enjoying life on your own? I mean your sitch is kind of like mine. My W said she wants to be like "room mates". What have found is that I have started doing some things on my own. I changed my attitude and started having a good time. My W has seen this and has started to change herself. She is not yet to the point of asking to join me on my outings but a few times when asked she was happy to. Maybe what you need to do is examine yourself and find out what makes you happy. When you find out do it. Hiking, arts, dancing. Just do it. You will be a happier person and maybe it may spark an interest in you from your H again.
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And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
