I hope your H will pick up 5LL. What do you think yours is? I was wondering, it seems from your threads that it might be physical touch.
I was pretty sure that mine would be quality time/doing things together, but now I actually think it is gifts. The thought behind a gift means the world to me. I was crying yesterday over a snapple coupon my H gave me,
Maybe not such a bad thing to give yourself a DB break for a bit, recharge.... Maybe H will decide he wants to do some of the work, who knows.