Sounds perfect Agent99 - make it your own space as much as you can.

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You had mentioned that you think that it would have been better if your H was concerned about losing you; what would have accomplished that?


Very good question. Probably a lot of what I listed above - being less available, less reachable, more detached. Of course, who knows - I have no control over what he thinks (wouldn't THAT be nice??). But I think those things would have helped. Be nice, be friendly, but be clearly not pursuing him, not obviously waiting around for him. Does that make sense?

Me 35, H 38; Together 13.5 yrs, M 7
Bomb 1 10/07/06
Sep'd 1/14/07 - 4/15
Piecing: 4/07 - 9/07
Bomb 3 10/11/07: Never loved you, let's separate
2/08 slowly improving
7/08 Piecing (7/25/08 rings back on!!)
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