{{{{{{{{{LL}}}}}}}}}}

Sorry you are sad and discouraged. When my H and I were at the Marriage Breakthrough seminar, one of the assignments Michele gave was to list ways you could make your S feel loved. My H pegged mine beautifully too - but same story, just couldn't (wouldn't?) put in the effort. In my H's case I think it was a bit of a passive-agressive control thing (I could do this for you but, naaaa, don't think I will).

I dunno, just comisserating with you. Still, your H is making way more effort than mine ever did! Maybe he'll get there in time - I sure hope.

Have a nice weekend, LL.

rjj