I know you keep hoping he'll change his mind, but if he changed his mind and came back today, neither of you would be ready. You need some time to stand on your own and get strong (you both do) before you're ready to come together and work on this.
Yes, you are right about that.
I moved the furniture around in the bedroom. The best set up was how it was, but I will be damned if I am going to keep it how it was.
I have no plans to repaint or anything since ultimately it isn't my house, but I am switching the comforter cover and removing a lot of the decorations.
You had mentioned that you think that it would have been better if your H was concerned about losing you; what would have accomplished that?
Me-43 H-46 M 12 yrs 7/09 T 15 2 grown kids bomb 7/05/07 H moved out 8/04/07 11/22/09 told him I quit;let's get ball rolling Mid Dec- he isn't sure he wants D End 2/2010-Starting to consider piecing
