Lil: interesting you should say that. She just called and asked me when it was that I was planning to go to Tucson. I told her. She said, "o-kay" and, well the NG in me detected that "o-kay" can be translated to "wrong answer. You were supposed to say, 'I'm not going anymore.'" But, as Corri noted, This is only going to be a big deal if you continue to treat it like it's a big deal. Stop.