thanks, atgo. yep, thinking e-mail is the way to go. we'll see how long it lasts/how it goes. it definitely takes the emotional edge off. I don't have to hear his voice, can step back a bit and answer/ask stuff on my own time, and lets not underestimate editing! very nice to be able to type something out, check it out, delete half, then send on. kind of a "measure twice, cut once" rule for communication.
on a sidenote, I know stbx means soon to be ex, but for some reason my brain always reads it as, stupid ex. lol. not sure why, there is no b in stupid ex, but that's where I go.
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