actually, the om in this sitch was also married. Not one of my proudest moments....
H also called his wife -- after contact with om and myself was cut off and he gives me a note a few weeks later "you look exceptionally nice today" and I emailed him, bcc'd H to say that it was inappropriate and unwelcome and to knock it off.
It was then that H called his wife. She was unaffected...asking H to not tell work because basically, she enjoyed the lifestyle she has....
wow.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
