Every sitch is different, this is the first I heard of a positive. But It sounds like you KS was not totally committed to the PA. I am so glad it worked out for you. In my sitch the OM is married. Not only would my family be destroyed so would his wife's. It is a decision the Cali needs to make, but once it is done there is no going back. I too was thinking I could call the OM and threaten him to get out or I would E-mail the pics to his wife and business. IF he was scared enough this would work. But dealing with the low life that he is he may say something to my W and everything I have accomplished would be over.
I know we are not helping much but it is good to get both sides of a sitch.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know