Quoting lostlove:
I'm appreciating the little things he does around the house...like emptying the diaper pails and small trash cans throughout the house..letting me sleep in a bit...makin my tea...giving me a hug occasionally...
LL,
Is H maybe showing love to you in his love language? Sounds like "acts of service" may be his love language. Although that isn't yours from the sound of it. Have you thought about that, and does it help you understand him better? Just thought I would throw that out there to see if it helps.

I think that this things are good - glad to see he is helping and let you sleep.

Me 47
Ex H 46
Bomb 9/02
D final 3/04
Ex H now married to OW

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