When she woke up in the morning she completely reversed her mood and was very grumpy and actually was yelling at me for no apparent reason.
When you've had some closeness, the WAS will need to establish a safe distance again. Read the "picnic/castle" analogy, it explains it perfectly, along with what your reaction should be.
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Is it a good thing that she wanted me to comfort her?
Yes! Your reaction will determine a lot, however, in how safe she feels to come to you, ie. no pressuring, R talks, questions.
Keep on reading & learning until it becomes ingrained. It's tough to not react when they distance, that's for sure.
