Hey olive,

Last night I kind of had my first Physical touch with My W in a year....

Before bed I asked her if she wanted to see and feel the hernia.
She came into the bed room and I took he hand and placed it on my hernia.

Hey what can I say her hand (I mean the situation) is headed in the right direction.
Husband

And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know