Madonna/Whore Complex (part 7)

[Heywyre]

Thanks Martelo for your openness and the valuable information you have provided

Our ST is VERY intuned to both of us too, he can read subtle expressions on my H's face like no other, its incredible at times and he digs deep to the core, which makes H VERY vulnerable and uncomfortable

I too have come to realize that I am not perfect by any stretch, and there is much I have to deal with too. It is definitely NOT a one-way street

We have made a giant leap in that we have come to an agreement that my H needs to express his emotions more and I need to perhaps curtail my neediness a little and then we can meet in the middle somewhere (although he is understanding to the fact that might not happen overnight as the majority of my neediness right now stems from him having the A's as I was not at all needy before)

ST has given us something to think about this week - and to dig deep into our feelings. ST said to get to the point where we are experiencing each other "naturally" and spontaneously we will first have to go outside our comfort zones and be consciously aware of everything we do and this will probably not be very easy for either of us