thegoodfight, I have read your post and it's rather interesting. I do agree with you that at times we dont value our M and R so much. We seem to have M and R as low priorties in our lives. This is dead wrong! It's been almost 45 days since I found out entirely about W and her EA. It was the worst shocked I have ever experienced.

I dont want to go into much details on your post. Since then, I have done some immediate changes and now W is questioning or is very curious as to my actions. It seems to me that the 'questioning' W is somewhat reacting positive to my changes and cannot believe the things she is seeing day by day.

You have done well and keep it up. I know I need to go further but I can only live 24 hrs at a time and I post my previous 24 hr in my stitch.

Good luck and keep going, I do like to hear great progresses given the fact that I am also at the end of my rope but I am holding on tighter than anything else.

See the W, Listen to the W, but dont Speak back to the W. Bridle your tongue...