This seems.. just... wrong to me. ugh. What does he have to be excited about? he's got full cable tv? very.. very.. wrong. Something seems up with that.
But either way... Time for you to get excited, about YOU Plan fun stuff for YOU, and forget about him as much as possible. You need to take "Getting a life" seriously now. [seriously fun? ]
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle