so far three days in a row of the good h...ok not the perfect h but the very good h anyway.. don't know what the correlation is but I'm not going to stop what I'm doing anyway...focussing on me...doing my own thing...the next couple of days might be tough as it is going to snow but I still have some work to do in the dining room so that should keep me busy in the evening while h is out plowing and I'll do my best to not be bothered if h spends any time at his apartment..I will do as h suggested the last time he stayed there and consider it office space.