Hi LL, I hear your frustration, I know your struggle. Some guys just dont get it. Your guy was attracted to a live wire, someone that made him laugh gave him lots of fun. I have tried to switch the tide and have him give me back what I gave him. It just doesn't work. I have told him exactly what I want from my man. Right down to dotting the I's and crossing the T's. I realize that I am the entertainer, I am the one that gives this relationship life. So, I take what I want hugs, kiss's and leave it at that. I needed to stop thinking that the reason he wasn't doing it was because he wasn't interested. My suggestion to get back to the person you enjoyed and be that person. Don't let someone upset your apple cart. You know the rest.... Loretta
