Whatever you decide it has to be right for you. I agree with you on every aspect.
Maybe you should shake him up a bit. Its your life though and you have to make the choice.
My opinion is this guy thinks he can have his cake and eat it too, I really wonder too how these people can look in the mirror and live with themselves everyday that they are ruining families.
Sorry I wasn't much help, but im sending prayers your way...
TAL
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