back from the gym. h and I have been e-mailing...think its the perfect thing for us to do right now. just about the kids/changes in visitation that are coming up, and about the new job. think he's going to take it. he asked if I had any other thoughts on it, but honestly I think he/we have weighed everything. the only thing I mentioned was what if current company countered. he just wrote that the only thing that they could do was if they offered him a very specific promotion...exactly what I thought it would have to be. but he added another twist to it, it would have to be here in new england. so definitely not gonna happen, and really something that tells me where his mind is...ow can't leave the boston area due to custody of her son. well, don't expect the counter anyway, but boy was that just laid out for me.
not upset, really. didn't expect anything different. anyone take their relationship to e-mail? because I think we are best this way, at least for now. maybe someday, after all the hurt and anger fade, and time has marched on for a while, we can do the face to face stuff again. who knows.
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"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
