Still Seperated and Hopeful

[ourcrisis]

MC, sorry to hear that you have a tough night.
I see two parts in this R talk.
The bad part. She is still thinking there is no spark. She saw the attorney, instead of thinking of seeing C. Seems like leaning towards D.
The good part. She IS looking for a spark. This means she is trying (in her own way) to see if this can work. She wants to know YOUR feelings. If she is totally DONE, she wouldn't care less about how YOU feel.
From my point of view, it is actually good that you cried and told her about your dad. It means to her that you are opening up. Would she let you know what else she wants in terms of R, may be in another R talk with her (that hopefully she inititates?) It may be a good chance to see what it is that she wants. Keep in mind, though, at this point, she may want everything that you cannot possibly provide and even if you do, she won't like it. But this is still like dating. In dating time, your girlfriend would like the moon and you would try to get that to her. That's what makes her "special".
I don't know if this is good interpretation of her action. She may just had a bad day and used the "dad" issue to vent her frustration. Or she may have thought about this long and hard and the "dad" issue is one of the many issues she is not happy about. (again keep in mind that right now, she wants EVERYTHING and stil, not much is good about you).
I don't know if this is good advice. But i sense that while she dropped the bomb, you got one piece of data to think about. Why did she say there is no "spark"? From what you posted, you are doing GREAT in terms of relating to her. Is there a different love language that you are not addressing? like may be sharing your feelings? (which most men don't, I realize that now). The fact that she called you afterwards is good. She still cares, even if just from a friend's standpoint. And a friend can grow into a lover. (unfortunately for most of us here to know that FRIEND can become LOVER, but that is a fact).