edimarie,

I can only agree with Sara. I don't think it's a bad thing necessarily for your H to see you vent a bit at him - after all if you didn't would that not show that you didn't care? I went mad at my H and I made sure I heard the phone calls and saw the emails ending the A. I also made damn sure she knew that he and I were still intimate and that altho very emotional that side of things was as good as it had ever been. Guess what? Sex with her had not been a good F"(k - It had been absolutely lousy!!!!! \:o

Sometimes you can be too understanding - just a thought ;\)

\:\)Saffie

Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength