CVA - "Back in Shape"

[Not Much Left]

Thanks Warm and WAW
My big thing this morning is this...how do I ask about going to counseling without blowing up something or am I making a bigger deal out of this question than it is?

I have not told her I am seeing a new counselor, dont know how that is going to go over. Just seems like we are now stuck.

She does not really want to go to church (says pastor does nothing for her) so I feel like that connection is lost and as we come up on 6 mos, all I can think about is the little slip of paper in her purse notepad that says something like "I need a plan, be assertive, I am justified", something like that. What is the plan in her mind? How do we get to a pt where we can talk to someone together if I dont initiate that. I just wish she would stand up and say "OK, I am now ready to go to MC"

Any thoughts? I know you guys dont know my W, but likely you now have an idea of who I am and how she is, polar opposites.

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