I think my H would die for a backrub, to give or to get. Keep it up. The contact is good and it sounds like this is wearing down the W's wall of resistance.
Good for you trying to move in for a hug. You have said all along that your W is not good at making the next move so you have to keep taking small steps and seeing where you land. Very brave of you! Doesn't sound like it hurt anything as you still got the backrubs and watched Entourage together.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
