Lessons from a former WAS

[thegoodfight]

This weekend was better, did some talking on Friday I flat out addressed that confiding in another male friend about our relationship could only hinder us communicating in the future. I recommened individual counseling again as an alternative. She indicated that the conversations she is having are very supportive toward the situation and toward the marriage. I indicated that I thought the intentions were good, but still did not believe it could be as helpful as working together toward communicating. She agreed, W. seemed to be more affectionate this weekend and we had fun together.

Sunday night after some alone time with my W. she asked me if I really wanted to go ahead with a operation I was planning. The V. I reminded her that we talked about it before and she and I were done having children.

I then said regardless of what happens between her and I, I did not want anymore children. Then kind of sat there and pondered the question, she said she did not mean to upset me with the question, I told her I knew she didn't mean to and I calmly excused myself from the conversation. Sometimes you just wish you could knock some sense into the other, but since I was the one that needed some sense I will continue to remain patient.