Still Seperated and Hopeful

[SuperDad]

MC,
I randomly called up your posts just now and saw that you just posted this. (Maybe Synchonicity at work?!)

My thoughts:

1. This was a huge 180 for you, maybe against the LRT concept of R talks, but HUGE and I think positive in the long run. Especially that you told her that you have been working with C on your unaddressed feelings about your dad.

2. I think your C is right that you and your W need to sort out your individual issues before you can work on your R.

3. If she was so certain that it was over, she would not be looking for a "spark". Follow some of Theo's advice (and Deida's) and experiment around to create a spark.

4. This is obviously probably something that you need to discuss with your C.