Frank, You are right. I still have my health, I still have my girls and a lot of other wonderful things in my life. Most of the time it is all about our perspective on life that allows us to feel if it is going good or bad. Sure my M is coming to an end, but there still is a lot that is going good for me.
Journaling: This weekend was a blast. I left work early on Friday so I could get on the road a little earlier then I would have. We hit a ton of traffic which added an extra one and half hours to our drive. We got up to the cottage and basically went straight to bed. Saturday, we all got up early eat breakfast, then put the boat in the water. We had a great time tubing and just cruising the lake. I am actually still fairly sore from my cousin whipping me across the lake on the tube. On Sunday we went into the Dells did a jet boat tour, rode some rides, went to Deer Park and did a little mini-golfing. After a full day we hit the road for home. The ride home was smooth sailing and my girls crashed as soon as we got out on the road.
My W as usual called a few times this past weekend to check on our girls. I even had the girls call their Mom to say good night or good morning a couple of times. However on a few of the phone calls she did not even talk to our girls, she just asked how they were doing and left it at that. Anyways, this morning I woke up to a note from my W mentioning her new thoughts on our asset division and that I need to get it done today so that I could refinance tomorrow. Her thoughts are better, but still not 50/50. I think me refinancing tomorrow is also a pipe dream for her. I do know that she needs to get off of the mortgage so she can get her loan, but she no longer has any say in what I do or when I do it. Though at this point I do not feel like stringing this along any further then it needs to take.
BTW, today is the first day that I could have been legally D. I guess on paper the government still sees us as a couple. I guess they do not know about the A or that my W still sleeps with her phone????Hmmmm I wonder why she does that......
